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Canadian TV Guide
January 1990
by Glenn Esterly

From Montana hippie to prime-time grunt

The road leading Jeff Kober to China Beach was full of uncommon twists and turns

By Glenn Esterly

Jeff Kober got into acting out of sheer necessity. "I was a pretty good rancher (in Montana), a fairly decent corn-dog salesman in a carnival, a very marginal guitar player and a thoroughly lousy waiter," Kober says. "I had to get serious about acting lessons after I came to Los Angeles. I had to say, "When I'm 50, am I going to wake up and, in my own eyes, be a hero or a fool?" Some of the most brilliant actors in the world are still in classrooms in this town and will never get out. They never let their passions overcome their fears."

Kober's passions have led him to the role of Dodger on China Beach. "It was supposed to be a one-shot appearance in the pilot, playing the war-weary marine who'd just spent several months in the bush, having seen far more than any young man should see. He was changed irreconcilably and aged far beyond his years. Yet he was able to relate to the complete innocence of this innocent, virginal 'donut dolly' (Nan Woods). When I read that script, I knew I had to have the part."

Kober's impact in the role led to recurring scenes on the acclaimed series during its second year ("Dodger was wounded and spent a lot of time questioning his worth and his manhood"), before he shifted to regular status this season. "Dodger's suicidal mood changed when he was presented with what we’re told is his baby, by and Asian woman. He decided to accept responsibility for it and started to re-embrace his own life." (As of this month, Dodger is returned stateside - but will remain a key character.)

Growing up in Billings, MT., Kober never quite embraced the life of a rancher, even though he worked hard at raising Black Angus cattle and sugar beets. "After my English teacher, Mrs. Dillbeck, introduced me to literature - especially Shakespeare - I knew I was going to be leaving Montana to do something else. I'd go into the bunkhouse at night and talk to the dogs, drinking wine and read Nietzsche. The other cowboys talked to the dogs and drank wine, too - but I didn't see any reading Nietzsche.

Admittedly a misfit, Kober let his hair grow long, went off on a hitchhiking expeditions, played in rock bands and passed - in what were still Vietnam War years - as a Montana hippie. The tsk-tsking about his being different got more pronounced when he toured the country for a while with a carnival. "Where I come from, the people are very tight-lipped and extremely independent," he says. "I didn't enjoy getting singled out because I was being independent. If I walked into a bar, somebody would make a crack about my long hair - "Who's the girl at the end of the bar?"

Finally, with a girlfriend living in Los Angeles, he decided to move there. "About an hour out of Montana, I felt this tremendous weight lift off my shoulders." Living across the hall from Jerry Giddens, lead singer in the original Walking Wounded band, Kober taught himself to play "a highly mediocre" bass guitar in order to get into the group. "We had a hit little band for a year, but it was riddled with strife. Jerry's made it into a success now with all the new members."

Trying out acting classes, Kober discovered that "I had a lot to learn about being in touch with my feelings. Acting was the one thing that made me feel - and feel alive. In the beginning it was personal therapy. Then it became a way for me to feel fully alive, which is all that acting is - to be completely alive in a given situation."

Kober got small parts on daytime soaps, then guested on Falcon Crest, Remington Steele and MacGyver. There were also movie roles in "Out of Bounds," "Alien Nation" and the upcoming "Transit." When the chance to read for Dodger cam along, Kober had a bad fly attack and sounded more like a bullfrog than a human, but the producers thought the vocal quality was distinctive and asked him to keep the croak.

Vocal quality aside, Dana Delaney, an Emmy winner for Best Dramatic Actress, says Kober's unlikely emergence as an actor in demand - particularly playing skewed characters - reminds her of James Woods' career of playing misfits. "James Woods would never be right for a sitcom, and neither would Jeff," Delaney says. "Jeff strikes me as a guy who's going to have longevity - and with a break here and there, maybe emerge in a more prominent way than anyone could anticipate."

On the personal side, Kober met his wife Rhonda Talbot, a film company executive, four years ago in a health club - "It sound like a horrible cliché', but that's actually where we met" - and they now have a 5 month old son.

Like the professional side, Kober attributes the marriage to being forced to open up. "I was doing 'Out of Bounds' at the time, playing a drug dealer in my first significant feature role. Basically I was in a panic situation, taking in everything not ruling out any possibilities - expanding rather than contracting. If I hadn't been thinking like that, I might not have been receptive to meeting a new woman in a strange setting like a health club just then. I was open to whatever came at me - including a woman named Rhonda."

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